Stop Doing Less and Wanting More

The bank account is empty, so blame the kids (who didn't ask to be here). Job is not paying enough, so blame the job (who only sees their employees as mules, who are replaceable nonetheless). Doesn't it feel better? I mean blaming others for one's own personal shortcomings feels pretty damn good. At least at first. It's like biting a hot pepper thinking it's not really that hot....only to find out the heat are in the seeds. A bite into one of those seeds, will send a person running to the nearest oasis. Until people realize that blaming anyone, even themselves, is not the answer to their problems, they can move on to hopefully becoming more successful indivuduals. Stop doing less and wanting more. If I came to someone's home, took some pictures for 10 minutes, and gave them an invoice for a million dollars, they would think I was crazy. I'd say, "No it's not crazy, because a million dollars is how much I desire." As bizarre as that sounds, it is still (in my opinion) not as crazy as doing the exact same thing day in and day out, and realistically expecting a different outcome. At least I could argue that I feel that my time is worth that much. What argument can one that habitually does something, yet expects more favorable results, make? I believe most people have been  guilty of this crime, at least one time in their lives or another. I accept my shortcomings and I work on them quite often. But I don't fool myself. For instance, I know I don't own a home because I didn't earn one. It's not because I'm Black. It's not because of my upbringing. It's not because of the recession. I do not own a home because I have not prepared myself the way one should when approaching home ownership. It's that simple. For me to continue on the way I used to, and to want a million dollar house would be retarded. I see people all the time and they are wishing for this, and asking God for that. I'm not big on religion, but I'm sure whatever religion most people follow, there is some teaching that asserts their creator made them capable of obtaining things. I see women all the time wanting a guy who is gorgeous, rich, good with children, romantic, and thoughtful. Not saying there is anything wrong with their ideals. However, if the person is ugly, poor, bad with children, selfish, and dramatic, then there is. They are simply doing the bare minimum, or less, and wanting beyond the maximum. Stop it. Guys do the same thing. They want woman who is beautiful, a good cook, a sex machine, faithful, and who is willing to be quiet during sports games. If the men themselves don't cook, aren't faithful, and have the idea that sex ends after they ejaculate, then they are in denial. They are not going to get their ideal woman, unless  they become financially stable enough to afford a woman who's willing to pretend like they don't hate their guts. And the reason is...you guessed it...they are simply doing less and wanting more....

Teach Your Kids About Credit!!!

I will start this blog off by stating that I do not have any children. So some may want to discredit everything I say hereafter. However, those who would act in such feverish haste, without giving this blog at least an inkling of a chance, are probably the ones who need to read it most thoroughly. But that is just MY opinion. If only one person lets my text delve into their thoughts and sit for a few moments, I will be whole heartedly satisfied. Now to the subject at hand, CREDIT. Credit all starts when a person is just old enough to understand their parents and/or authority figures' wishes. This phase starts way before the concept of money is even fathomable. If a parent buys a 4 year old a pack of candy, it is like credit. Of course the parent does not want the child to consume the whole thing at once. It is ideal that the child should spread out the candy, only enjoying pieces after he or she has been obedient and deserving of such a treat. When someone lets their child eat the WHOLE pack, they are already sending the wrong message, and inadvertently setting the kid up for failure. I know some may be taken aback by that comment, but it is the truth. Where do bad habits start? FROM CHILDHOOD! Some kids are natural-saver kind of people, while others prefer to spend EVERY DAMN PENNY. Whatever parents birth a "natural saver" child, they are lucky. The child already understands that their money is of value, and should be held tight! I was the opposite...I was the spend EVERY DAMN PENNY of mine + yours kid. And with that said, you can bet that my credit score is far from perfect. No one ever taught me to save my money, and as a result, I learned to spend frivolously for the majority part of my life. But I am not alone; MOST people's credit scores are not great...And if somebody wonders why that statement holds true, I would blurt out "Because their asses started off eating the WHOLE PACK of candy...just like I did!" My parents never really witnessed the art of saving. None of my grandparents earned much money, thus there was nothing to save. So I do not directly blame my parents for my negligence, but I honestly believe had I been taught to be a little more frugal, I would be in a better situation than I am now from a CREDIT standpoint. But remember, no lessons are FULLPROOF. One MUST teach their kids to save, even if  THEY do not. Teach them to dodge the potholes of debt that plague so many of us. If they morph into adults who choose to ignore the potholes, then fine, that's beyond the parent's control. At that point, there is only three things a parent can do: assist them changing their flat tire, call AAA, or continue to buy them new tires until who knows when...maybe til death! So before anybody lets their kid eat the WHOLE pack of candy in one sitting...remember this blog.