YOU Said "They Ain't Shit," Right?

I'm so sick and tired of women AND men talking about the opposite sex "ain't shit". But who's the blame here? I mean think about it....you walk around screaming (or fb posting) to the top of your lungs that these people aren't right, yet you promote their behavior. Ladies, you met him WHILE he was still in a relationship...what did you THINK was going to happen? Oh, so YOU thought you was going to have one big happy f'n family with this guy??!! You THOUGHT you was "stealing" him away, huh? Let's be serious here!  You was simply borrowing him; he was NEVER yours to begin with. You let him get away with "having his cake and eating it too," then you want to be mad because he felt your expiration date was up, and tossed you to the side.  Don't try to apply his sorry ass to EVERY man you come across. People only do what you ALLOW them to do. If all these guys you are getting in relationships "ain't shit," what does that say about you? And yeah, I understand we ALL make mistakes, but when we keep making them, they are no longer mistakes, they are bad habits. And fellas, you're not exempt either. Y'all do the same thing! You met her in the club, and she told you RIGHT THEN, she didn't have a man, and didn't want one! YOU (like a dummy) got a taste of the goodies and decided you wanted to take the cooch off layaway and buy it. You probably thought it was cheaper to keep her, huh? Wrong! Some women are better left on the shelf! She still wants to do her own thing and explore; instead you're walking around with your cape on trying to save her. Meanwhile, everybody else is laughing at you, because they seem to get the point faster than you do. She wants to be FREE! She doesn't want to be stuck under your lame ass every night. She wants to party, have fun and go home with some random dick every now and again. And normally people might say she's wrong, but she's not! She TOLD you that from the beginning, but YOU thought you could rescue her. Now you're finding yourself salty, because she finally decided that your company was no longer worth keeping. So now you're gonna walk around saying women "ain't shit". Well, you're wrong my friend. You simply tried to make something out to be that wasn't. The saddest part is you'll probably do it again. Moral of the story is there are both good women and good men out there y'all, so PLEASE stop trying to compare apples and oranges.